I worked so hard for it and now I’m losing my control over it!!

**If not read, please read the earlier post first

At some point of our life many of us have these feeling. We feel surprised; we feel that we work so hard but now things are not in our hand. We feel that, now it is our right to have things in our hand. Whether it’s our family, job or business at some point we feel it. The truth is different, we are part of evaluation process and nature’s objective is to use us for evolution and whatever we try, we cannot stop it.

For our understanding purpose, we can break down evolution process into three major steps.

• Step 1 – where we try to pursue something.
• Step 2 – where we try to give some shape to our persuasion.
• Step 3 – where our persuasion is in some shape. By this time it has created a new surrounding where there are new missing things, new things requiring improvement and certain things are totally missing. At this point, nature triggers us to pursue further and tell us to move to step 1 again J  

Nature has designed us to go through these steps. Our problem is that after step 3, rather than moving to step 1 again, we try to stay at step 3 and try to control things.

People who are pursuing positions/power/money as their objective are the prime victim getting stuck at step 3. They started with that objective only and once they achieve it they start’s controlling things. Now they will start creating problem for new people also. The fear of losing control makes them insecure, in a way they start creating problem for further evolution.

Whatever way you take nature will evolve. Even if you do not take the right path of following your drive it will get its work done. These people never evolve while rest of the surrounding is evolving. After sometime this gape becomes so big that these people will become incompetent to cope up the new challenges and they will start controlling things by manipulation. Nature has simply used them to evolve itself  and now they don’t have capability to move to step 1. Soon someone else will replace them, in other sense they will be simply rejected by nature.

People who follow their drive are always skillful, getting evolved in sync with the rest of surrounding and always ready to move to step 1 again.

People who run behind positions/power/money they spend their entire life in pain and stress hoping some day they will have comfortable life and things will be in their control. There is no point fooling ourselves by believing that success/happiness is sitting somewhere at high altitude and once we reach there we will get itJ.

Success/ happiness is in following our drive. Every small milestone which we achieve while following our drive is success and the whole journey is full of success and happiness.